Well I'm going to the gym more. For a while there my back went out on me, but it seems to be manageable enough now. So I will be hitting the gym this evening. I'm also looking to get back into performing. And I'm trying to say yes to all social invitations from friends and family (I was a huge "no" guy before).

On the whole ending the conversation first it is a really good point. The last two times we spoke on the phone my w. was really friendly and then ended the call abruptly (really actually rudely). I am starting to think it was not a coincidence. Is that her showing dominance? That's my best guess. I will have to work on ending the conversation sooner. It will be quite a challenge this weekend when we are supposed to be spending all day Saturday and Sunday working on the house.

I do have to stop spending so much time on the board. It is great to read the stories and feel the support, but I am at work and really need to start getting better about working again.