So, I just talked to H and guess what? He has too much work. He is really stressed about it and he feels he cant make it (he has a deadline). So, our life/relationship/marriage will be at the back burner till May 2nd when his deadline is up and his work done. Then of course he has his other work that he will need to catch up with and... you guys know the drill as good as I do.
He still sounded down but now I know that it is mostly his work because that's what he told me when I asked. He said he is panicking and very stressed and feels discouraged. I validated and supported him, reminded him that this particular project happens once every year and that he always does a good job in the end and he will this time also. He agreed and he asked to talk to the kids. Seems the stars arent working in my favor. K
Note: I felt resentment creeping back in my soul because I take a week off my normal vacation days to be with our kids because they have off this week, he could be spending time with me and use this week to connect but of course, once more, his job is in the way. After what he said, I couldnt even suggest we meet for lunch tomorrow, he said he is working like crazy and the day doesnt have enough hours... Another chance we missed.
