So you say, like the manly pirate you are, "hey baby, no one is looking and the curtains are drawn....flash me your boobs!"

To which she looks at you with sour response and flat out refuses.

And then you say "Don't give me that look, you're MINE and I want to see those t*ts right now young lady, so FLASH ME!" (said with a wink to let her know you are "playing pirate" but stern enough that she knows you are serious).

To which she sighs, rolls her eyes, and the reluctantly flips her shirt up for one millionth of a second, during which you don't even really get to see them.

And you respond "that's more like it, and I'll take more of that later when I feel like it".

Progress.

Baby step or giant leap?

What is there to loose? Sour look and rejection?

OK I get that this is your personal demon and its hard for you.

But logically, in reality, she WANTS you to do this, sour look or rejection or not.

Just my very perverted two cents....

DQ