Just a question though, haven't you taken my advice yet and told her straight up to flash you? Just getting her to do this, via an act of masculine selfish demand upon her by you, will turn her on and give her a taste of what it might feel like to actually do it on her own initiative.
Nope. I'll know when she's ready and would actually do it upon masculine selfish demand, and she's far, far from the point right now. ATM, I'd get a very sour look and a flat out refusal, which would make me look weak, not masculine.
Baby steps.
-- B.
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007
