The Bumpy Road to Recovery #3

[Bagheera]

I'll also add that sexual polarity is just as much improving actions, as much as appearance.

I haven't changed my wardrobe or appearance much over the past year, with the exception of adding the short beard. However, I -have- changed my behavior with regard to my wife, particularly in our romantic relationship and *especially* in the bedroom. Milquetoast is no longer permitted there. Could I do more appearance wise? You bet -- I need to amp up my exercise schedule and could -drag- myself to the store and improve the clothes selection. But the most important thing is to keep improving my masculine behavior with her -- that's the key for her.

Now, admittedly, since woman are the -display- sex in our species, and men are visually stimulated by it, my wife could easily move in the feminine direction and improve our sexual relationship with changes in wardrobe / appearance. However, changes in behavior would be just as welcome --> right now, she never flirts, is never sexually provative in her actions, is never sexually playful or teasing. She's got room to explore in -both- appearance and behavior, in small steps.

That said, I love her and find her hot and sexy as is, and tell her so frequently. I R smrt.

-- B.