Alone,

Glad to hear. I hope I didn't jump all over you! It's so hard dealing with being alone all of the sudden. There were days that I just felt so destitute. But I had to learn that my life could exist w/out my W, if that's the route she so chose. I had to learn that God alone was sufficient for me, and if I sought him with all my heart he would bless my life. I had made a sort of idol out of my marriage, and I had gotten to the point where I couldn't go on w/out my W, and that was not good for me or her. Those were my biggest lessons. Try hard not to simply medicate what you are feeling with activities and people--don't get me wrong, I don't mean to sit and sulk, but do take time alone to reflect on what positive thing you can learn from all of this.

WP