Thanks. sounds like you are right where I am. I guess I've droppedthe rope we communicate very rarely and then by email or text.I sometimes think that maybe this holding on to hope is bad for me and I should get her as far gone as possible. but thats not what I would like to happen.I am trying to sell our home right now and all the assets we have. Gonna really take a beating in this market. But all she says is get it done. I wish I would have found this site post bomb. probably wouldnt be here. I have my boys 4 days aweek and while their home they try to think up ways to get mom home. its really sad for them.