Tjs-My H has left me before and says he wants a divorce but never ends up filling for it. He has told me again he wants a divorce cause he thinks that this OW is just what he needs. I dont think we will ever know why our spouses do what they do, but I know that more than anything I wont give up on my marriage. I hope that you too will be able to find the courage to do the same. I here to help supprt you with your journey so please take me up on the offer. I know that knowing your not alone and having a good support sytem will help. I will continue to pray for you and your spouse.