I just wanted to jump in and say to Puppy, that I am glad you are still having a positive attitude about marriage in general...and because of that, I know that after you go through all of this crud (assuming that you do end up D'd), then you will find that woman and you will have that happy marriage you were hoping for.
As a divorced person, it is/was very tempting to feel bitter about marriage. Especially knowing that second marriages fail even more often than firsts! But...I do have the right person, and I am learning a brand new way of viewing marriage. I feel happy, in love, supported, and generally healthier than I ever have in my life before. We follow many of the marriage builders ideas, and boy does it work. So anyway, what I am saying is....don't give up hope on MARRIAGE, even if you are forced to give up hope on your current marriage. I know Puppy fought this battle to the end, and he would have much preferred for Mrs. Puppy to have a light bulb go off over her head and realize that she also wanted this marriage to work and be happy together. So then he was forced to give up on this marriage. Not by his own choice. But in the future......Puppy, there is a happy future waiting for you. Complete with a woman who loves and adores and supports you and wants as much sex (or more) than you do!
