Just curious why didn't you just call the kids? I know its hard but you can do it. I've been in the S for a loooong time and it took me a looong time to realize it's best to give space. It's natural to feel down just don't let your W see it.
I'm not sure why I didn't call guess I didn't want it to be too disruptive in case she was trying to get them to go to bed nor did I want her to think I was checking up on her
Guess I could have called. It is so hard to decide what's the right thing to do
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
