FIB - LOL - no need to apologize. You know how much you have helped me. And you have been so right about so many things.

She tried to deny everything about the neighbor last night in therapy with S11 and S7. She told them the neighbor broke his hand in a car accident the other day, so she is staying with him at times to help him. So S11 asked her why she needs to stay with him at night and she said that he offers her to stay over because it's easier than driving home.

It's comical. I was getting very enraged at listening to my S11. But as I looked at his face I can see that he really believes her so I left it at that. I told him that he doesn't need to tell me about these things unless something is on his mind.

I was up last night thinking about it. Is it better for him to listen to her lies or to know the truth. I decided that her R with him is her business. If she hurts him with hr lies I will intervene. But I think eventually he will figure it out on his own. My two oldest are really suffering through this.

The signed papers all came in yesterday. i officially have full residential custody of the boys. Now I can start pursuing getting the heck out of this house and moving on.

We need to shake hands!!

Strength and Honor.


M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.