(((((Michelle)))))(((((Kalni))))) I took some better (I hope) picture of the house with a real camera. I hope I can post them tonight. It isn't perfect, but it sure was a success.
S14 has been ill the past couple of days, really run down, and with a fever. I think I may have a touch of it too, I spent a lot of the weekend in bed, or at least moving pretty slowly, and it's kept up through today, though I have made it to work. Probably won't get in a full day today, though, I was late getting here, and I don't think I will stay late enough to make up for it.
Ahh, thats so sweet.. the house for W.. you really are a caring man Jeff.. how many spouses would go to so much effort when facing a D?? Truly, I am sure she will miss you when you are no longer there to show her love....
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
I'm still tired, but no worse. Kalni, I think you are right. Even though things are going smoothly, I'm sure my brain is working overtime. Being a bit ADD to start with, that's not a good thing!
Ali, making the house was fun. I guess I really did it for the kids, as it was their idea, but it was for her. I suppose it is a bit different than most spouses would do in this situation, but I am the one that gets to look in the mirror every day. I'd like to be happy with who I see. Besides, it's good to keep in practice for whoever is next!
Will she miss me? I don't know. Maybe, maybe not. It's sure not something I can control. And, I guess it really doesn't matter.
Jeff, you are ok in my book. And what a wonderful example you are setting for your children, treating their mother with respect.
You know what I was just thinking (yeah, I need a life)? When your w is all moved into her house, you should get back to decluttering. You know, start out fresh. Clear your mind by clearing out your surroundings. YAY! What do you say?
