That was perfect, sweet1. She hears you when you talk like that. You put it back on HER where it needs to belong.
I don't think now is the time, but have you told her HOW you think you can make the marriage into something wonderful? I know in her mind she feels it is hopeless, feels there is nothing that can be done, and that SHE is being the stronger person by divorcing you. Something to think about. For me, it was my faith, the changes I saw in my husband, and not wanting to be a part time mom that got me to try. After that, it was this site, books, my husband's support, a pastor, and Retrouvaille that gave me more hope.
