BUNS, ABS, AND HEART OF STEEL #3

[cagzmom]

Trusting - I agree with Lord- your insight, expereince and honesty need to be published! you dont bring false hope - just truth and sincerity.

More to you later but let me say real quick.

1- your "feelings" after leaving your x the other day showed to me HEALTH and HEALING" and forgiveness.

2- you saw the real him -- and the life that he has lived is showing up physically (my x is beginning to really show signs of it too -- more on that later)

3- projection - how can he admit any guilt...it would cause him to have to look inside himself.

and the key thing I have seen -- your x was so much like mine. you said it in teh beginning..he never dealt with his "stuff". So much of our world is like that. YES WE ALL have had stuff. and there is the ultimate Healer who can bring us to health and peace. BUT we HAVE to do the work within ourselves. face our "junk". And they just plain DONT WANT TO.

AND I TOTALLY TOTALLY agree that TRUE reconciliation has to be a divine intervention -- and THAT takes 2 willing parties. GOD can and WILL work with the heart of the stander (and usually the stander is willing to work on themselves) BUT the runner --- only he/she can CHOOSE to stop running and go into the doctor for a "check up".

You amaze me as you know.

man our speaking engagements some day are going to be awesome!!