HELP! Is ML to try to reconnect a mistake?

[trampledheart]

I'm a little drunk right now so excuse me if I don't make too much sense.

So, guess what? I had H served this evening.

Yup. I actually did it. With help from my daughter, her best friend, and her boyfriend.

So, to recap how this all happened, let's see, ummmm, well first, I texted Hubby the previous night (the 20th) - and asked if he would like to meet for Happpy Hour the following day. H replied, "Maybe. Doesn't sound too bad."

Then the following day, he mailed me and said, "I'll meet you for Happy Hour if D21 comes too."

So, then...

I got to the Restaurant/Bar around 7pm and he was sitting at the bar... I thought I looked great (several guys checked me out) but he seemed to not notice, hardly even looked at me.

He asked about D21, and I told him they (D21, her boyfriend and best girlfriend) were running late. I arranged to get a table for all of us and we order some sushi and drinks. I asked him about work, and he talked about how he had to fire someone on Friday. He didn't really talk with me about much, he hardly even looked at me. I felt I was doing all the talking.

I chit-chatted about mundane things at first, and wound up commenting and asking about OW and him. I felt like this may be my last chance of finding out answers to the questions I've had for so long. I know, I shouldn't have brought up OW, and I even knew it as I said anything... But I couldn't help it. Well maybe I could've, but I did it anyways. I saw he was a bit annoyed/uncomfortable. So I backed off.

I remember telling H about my first upcoming appointment with a therapist - a MFT. And he replied with a "Hmmmm".

I also asked if we could meet and have "dates" in the future, and he said "No, no dates..."

When D21, her boyfriend, and best friend arrived, things got a bit lighter and more fun for him. We all drank and ate and talked... He was having a pretty good time. At a later point he even said that he wanted to do this again with everyone...

Had various topics of conversation... At one point, we talked about how D21 and boyfriend had been planning to go to Ireland using the airline points (as H had promised months ago). But now, they were thinking of going to Japan instead. H didn't comment or fess-up about having used them all up. He made no comment of his upcoming trip (Thursday AM) to Rome with OW...

The original plan was this: my daughter's best friend would be be the one to serve H. But that's not how it happened...

Will let you know later... Really tied!