I am glad you had a nice surprise visit with Weeman. Your wife doesn't seem to be avoiding you. I am sure she is noticing some changes in you, otherwise she would not 'drop in'.
You are on the right track, have more patience.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09