Wow Silver... everytime this man tries to approach you, EVERY time, you shut him down. Can you see that? I've said this to you before... I am not sure this is good DBing.. like the time at Christmas he wanted to have a drink with you.
Lets look at it from HIS perspective (I know, he's a selfish MLCer *rse, but hey...)... he calls you to let you know he'd like to come over (which is hard for these guys to swallow their pride and do that).. and says I dont have your cell number.. and.. what do you do? Not return his call, not text/email him to say, sure that would be fine, but what time? NO.. you ignore it and go out. Everytime he asks to see you, or speak, you stonewall him.. if I were him, I'd feel you were VERY angry at me and the path home to you was just too damn difficult, too many of your walls to climb and I just couldnt see how it were possoble.. and as I have had a crisis and scr*wed my life up already, I dont think I can face putting in the hard work to fix this, seeing as yuo dont even want to see me to hand over a tax form....
capiche!?
I was going to ask you what happened about hte discussion we were having on your last thread about stepping away from the safety and security of the LRT and being VERY dark on him.. Jody had said people cling to that technique as its a safety net and comforting. But.. at some point, you do have to try something different and your H keeps trying to engage with you (ok, in his lame, cloaked MLC way) but.. others here have to be the bigger person and be blase and run with any little crumb offered, as a good opportunity to DB (me included) even though ow is STILL in the picture. I am curious why you keep refusing to deal with him.. are you trying to win him back or punish him !!???
So.. you came here to be challenged... thers some food for thought !
