I wanted to ask a question that I had addressed in another post. I think it was Snodderly that had asked someone about what items the spouse took when he left the marriage/home. I dont know about others, but my xh didnt seem to take anything really important to him accept one picture of our son (when he was very young). He did however take a few things to set around his house. Just some that we had boxed up that went in our office. He also took a digital picture frame that I had bought him for his birthday. He acted like a child over this frame, stating that "you bought that for me, for my birthday and it is mine"! This digital frame had some different pictures on it, including some of me and xh together. I offered to erase them, but he insisted that I didnt touch it, it was his and he was taking it like it was! (He or ow may have erased them by now, or she may not even know I am on there because he doesnt let it change the picture. He pretty much keeps it on the picture of our son). He left behind ALL his tools, his mothers briefcase from her funeral, and pictures of his family. (His deceased mother and father included in these). Now I know that they are in a rush to leave, but I have asked him several times in the past if he wanted this stuff and he said NO. He told me to throw his tools in the trash!. Snodderly I know (I think), it was you that had asked this question, so I was wondering what your take was on this. Is there a reason you asked someone else this, and what signifiance does it?
