Jerri, when this first happened to me several months ago, my xh would sneak back to the house when I was at work. Once he came back and took "silverware"! The dollar store sells forks like 5 or 10 for a $1.lol He NEVER took anything that was important to him. Left his TOOLS, HIS MOTHERS FUNERAL INFO.(briefcase). NO PICTURES OF HIS MOM OR FAMILY. But he did take a digital photo frame that I had bought him for his birthday. He very angerily said "you bought that for ME, that is mine. It had pictures of me and him together on it along with some of son. I told him I would delete the ones of me off and he got upset and told me NO to leave it alone, it was his. (very childish, like taking a favorite TOY from a child). When I told him that I would bring his tools to him, (and every man loves his tools, at least mine did. He kept them all neat in his big nice toolbox.), when I offered to bring them to him, he said NO put them in the TRASH or whatever I wanted to do with them. He did take one other picture of son, when son was very young. He also took a "Few" smaller items, like his min. police care he had made. (he was a cop at one time), and very little furniture.
Just wanted to give you a idea of how my xh worked.
My xh doesnt want any contact and I am "very" dark. I had to do this for me. It still hurts alot at times, but you have to take it day by day. Trust in GOD, he will make a way. I promise he will.
