They do sound alike. Is your x married yet? Mine is engaged after knowing her for 2 1/2 months. She IS NOT the one he left me for though. A 25 year old was pursueing him and I caught her calling him....he confessed, didnt know what else to do. He decided he like being single again and so he did. He dated another young girl 29-30 after that. He really liked her but she dumped him. Now he has this new one and she is 26. He once told me he didnt date older women, because they were wiser to the game.lol I think he really meant this. I just wish he wanted jump into marriage this soon though. BUT I have got to quit worrying about him. I do pretty good most of the time, but I do have bad days too.
I heard someone say once that a professor said this in class. If a Man/Woman leaves a marriage because they want to be free, then goes out and gets a gf/bf, it is more than like MLC. He said most of the time, the MLCer has to marry the person and live with them for 1 or 2 years before they realize it didnt fix things and same relationship occurs. They then wake up! I dont know how true this is, but it makes sense. My ex said he wanted to be single and play. He also said he wanted different companionship.
