MD, I don't think I've commented on your thread but I have been following.

Others may have different advice, but in my sitch I didn't talk to my xBF after I put him out of the house for a month. We did exchange emails about money issues but that's it. Even after he started wanting to come by the house and eventually ask for another chance I didn't see him face to face or talk to him for another month. Granted things moved rather quickly for me in DB terms, but I don't think it's anything to be alarmed over.

If you love somebody, set them free.
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