Thanks for the post. I am going for a short hike with FIL tmrw. I'll take your advice re: kids and supporting their R with inlaws and not dwell on H and I or looking for support. Hope to demonstrate I'm doing well with no self pity or looking for FIL to take sides.
It's been three weeks since I've seen H or talked face to face other than a few texts. Maybe this isn't unusual but do I just keep giving him space or at some point, do I need to call to talk or try to get together? It seems like the more time that goes by, the less connected he probably feels to me.
Maybe I'm just having a tough day, but it's hard to keep the faith when there's NO contact at all!?!