Hi DCBHM.

You are a very remarkable person and I absolutely am in awe of your laser beam focus. You are doing the right thing in protecting your children from your wife's insanity. And I don't use that word lightly.

My h is a borderline and there is no DBing in the world that will work on these personality disorders. It's sad, but this enemy is too great and I decided to save myself instead.

As far as truth darts, I think that only one I tried actually got through, but it didn't help. My h was involved with OW, but still saying grace and crossing himself before meals, etc. The hypocrisy of it was making me sick, so I called him on it. He immediately, coincidentally abandoned his religion.

How in the hell do they delude themselves into believing that GOD loves adultery?I mean really, was this a Frank Burns/Hot Lips Houlihan situation? "HIS WILL BE DONE", LMAO!! Oh yeah, GOD has bestowed his blessing on h's unholy union.

I admire you so much for holding fast to your integrity. You and Puppy are so brilliant.