Does this mean that she can do whatever she wants, see whomever she wants and treat you like crap?
Does this mean that you will continue to keep swallowing the [censored] she is feeding you because it is easier for you?
Does this mean that you will keep trying to fill your life with different activities as a good distraction rather then setting boundaries and accountability for her?
BND, I can see you don't vote for the let the story unfold approach. I'm not sure what boundaries you propose I enforce, and for what reason.
The only option I see in this is to pursue a D, and that's going to unbalance things. I will need to plan well for and be prepared for implementing that decision. Pursuing a D, at this time would be highly unpleasant.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
