True Love or True Fog? Changing Forums

[Silver Fox]

Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha!! I love you Flicka. Can you move here for awhile and be me?

Well, I called my "on call" girlfriend and we went out for dinner. Just got back - no other phone calls from H, no email, and it doesn't look like he was here either. I guess he changed his mind since that early morning call? What ever.

Thank you Jack for this:

Do what you can do successfully with him.

IF you can be in the same house and not get: angry, mopey, needy, weepy...pick a crappy description. Then be there.

IF you cannot? Go for a ride and leave the forms on the table.

Seeing him just to see him, hoping that somehow, this time it will be different, he'll look up and see me and realize what he is losing...well that works in movies...crappy ones at that.

Advice: Have no expectations.

I'm pretty sure now since his visit 2 weeks ago that I can control my emotions and I'm way past the seeing him just to see him - did that all last year. Tonight I just wanted to do the "I'm unavailable" method and I really didn't want to be bothered with it all - does that mean I've detached? Plus, they are my taxes too, I have a right to know what he wants them for don't I before I hand them over?