Some dreams can be very unnerving - can't they. Good to hear you pulled yourself out of it.
So on my thread you said you were in a band & how your & your W's life changed after getting M & having wee man. I think those changes happen quite often. I think it's good to keep going out to club or pub or whatever, maybe a once a month deal. So you don't totally have to throw your old life away, because of getting M or having a child. But that's just me. The key is a happy medium.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)