What do you think your H's reaction would be if YOU were the one to move out instead of him? And, yes, why DO you want the jerk back? He treats you terrible. He shows no respect and he treats your child terrible. I see nothing profitable in it for you if he does not change. I believe he is in full blown MLC, now. But, back to my question. How would he feel if you pulled a turn-about on him and moved out of the house insead of him? I bet he would be surpirsed to say the least, expecially after you begged him to come home. BTW, I hope you see where that go ya!
Remember.......they want what they can't have. Right now, he doesn't want you b/c you are giving the picture of a housewife clinging to his legs as he is despartly trying to get out the door. That is not very attractive, Limbo. You need to so something that will make him pay attention to you. Something he would not expect. I'm not telling you what to do, just that you need to do something other than what you are now.....b/c it ain't working!
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
