Go dim first, then when things get light enough between you two, do the wooing thing. But let her come to you rather than the other way around.
You have to attract her.
That was my original plan until I talked to my friend who brought up the wooing piece
Its tough for me to figure out when she's "coming to me" as she has continued what's she done over the past several weeks. She calls as well as sends me emails of jokes/humor
Figure I'll just play it Dim for a couple of weeks and see how it goes
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13