Wondering how to handle things

[Sanderika]

Hello kissak,

Just wanted to say hello to you....

Glad you and your family had a nice Easter. It sounds like your H made lots of effort to be with you all for the whole day.

Sorry about your daughter's kitty.

I understand completely the frustration about the hot and cold behavior we get from our H's. It is all so confusing. I just take it day by day. My H is actually very nice to me when he makes contact with me. We are always happy and chatty and have fun with each other. At least that is my opinion. We are now at a point if I ask a question I get an answer, I can almost ask him anything I want and he is open and honest. I know which subjects to steer clear of.

My H will also not answer his phone if he doesn't want to talk to me. He also won't answer if he is with the OW. NOW, when he calls me he gets frustrated if I don't answer my phone. If I don't answer my cell he will call the house number and vice-versa. He seems to keep trying until I answer one of them too.
See, they have to keep tabs on us. It's not really a two way street for them though, because if they want to hide out they just do it and seem to think nothing of it.

My H is still up to all the same tricks. I wish it would end.
I still have hope that we will reconcile. I am not sure that we will though.

I sincerely hope your H stops the games and comes home to you and your kids.

Have another good week....take care,

Sanderika