Urgent - need advice asap

[Jerri]

I'm sorry about starting the separate thread - couldn't figure out a way to change the title!

I have an appointment with the lawyer on Friday.

I have not replied at all to his texts of today. And I'm not buying the "business is bad" deal especially as just last week he ordered a custom made seat for his motorbike for a mere $1,000 (I have the invoice). I also discovered he'd been looking at yachts for sale (2006 motor yacht priced at $399,000) and planes (roughly the same sort of price).

I don't need to change the locks on the house as he doesn't have keys - the only reason he got into the house on Saturday was my friend was staying here dogsitting (he knew she would be here) and there was no way legally she could keep him out.

I am becoming more accepting of the fact that the marriage is over.