wow.. yes, I guess that was it then, you spotted it.. I sure felt a shift today, so seems you did too? I said it was a big day.. it was a sea change, a letting go of things/ways we have been holding onto .. a bit like letting go of the side of the pool perhaps... all those planets conjoining at 29' degrees, being the last degree of the last sign and then.. moving on. I think you got this bit right when you said...
"I hope he sees the light, either way. It seems he is now entering a new phase of looking "inside". And I think that he is forced to do it because I didnt "give in" to the nothing he is offering. I maybe wrong but it feels like he realises that unless he changes, I am not settling."
Yes, perhaps the penny finnaly dropped.. or.. has rolled into place at least? Funny that he describes that as being in a bad mood.. I wonder what his letter will say?
Sara.. I get this a bit at my ex..the -he hasnt done it yet, therefore he isnt going to- (who I think in many ways is similiar to Kalni's H.. stubborn, fixed emotionally, domineering mother, family where things are swept under the carpet, avoidant and very VERY slow to move/act, if at all.).. but its a moving target and just because he hadnt responded YET didnt mean he was therefore, never going to. They just take longer than the average person to get in gear, emotionally.. like YEARS!! Ridiculous in fact.
