Jerri,
I posted to you on thread number 2 that you have created.

I also wanted to point out that I wouldn't contact him. Let him simmer in that pot of juices he's created for a while. You just go ahead and contact your lawyer and get your ducks in a row...that doesn't mean you have to do anything just yet, but get ready. Do not share anything about your life or what you discuss w/your lawyer at this time. The less he knows, the better for now.

Now, do a thorough search of your entire house...he's taken other things. As for photos of the kids and you....he may very well not take them w/him at this time.

Oh, one more thing, ask the lawyer about changing the locks on your doors and garage. You need to do this because this pod person will be sneaking back in every so often and stealing things...I do not mean borrowing either.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.