Great book, for me! I can tell by your post that you've read it. I hope it helps you as much as it is helping me. I'm really learning from it.
I'm not done with it yet, about 90% of the way through. My approach was to read it through first and then go through the excercise/worksheet.
Before my wife left, when she brought up taking the space and time to find a therapist/counselor as well as do some reading, I did show her the book and told her that it was helping me understand some of the things/issues. I suggested that she may find it helpful as the first half was talking about how the wife felt. She said that when I was finished with it that she may like to borrow it. I was thinking about just getting her a copy as this seemed like a book that I was going to work with for a while...
If you think she'll be receptive to it...I'd get her a copy. Maybe some day my wife will be receptive to reading it. I know it'd help her to understand why I acted the way I did.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
