Hey Simon.. I'm sorry that you are facing this, that W seems to be spending more time with OM AND H... I dont know what to advise. You have done so much to be there for her and show her you regret how you were in the past. It seemed she was turning to you more and more recently, for help and advice.. but, do you get any feeling for where she is at? Do mutual friends or inlaws or anyone give you clues? Or do you not ask, or do not have mutual connections?
Did yuo do anymore with my suggestion to book some DB help? You seem to be in a bit of a stale mate right now.
Also, how would your W react if she knew you were starting to explore other options? I dont mean date (anymore than I can, I cant).. but a coffee, or lunch out with some female company would do you good and you deserve to have someone want to spend time with you, afterall...
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
