Lately I'm stuck on: Does she think about me? Does she miss me? How the heck do I stop dwelling on this?
I dunno...probably. I dunno... If I had to guess, I'd say yep. In the grand scheme of things, it makes no difference either way.
The last question is the only one that you can do anything about and it takes time. You focus on yourself and your children. You get out and try new things. You get out and do things you used to love to do before you were married.