LSL, I enjoyed your post to me. I am and have been working towards making H realize he made the right choice staying with me. This is no farce, I cannot go back to the way I was, that sucked. And yea, there were times I felt like telling him to eat [censored] and die too! The rewriting of history was there too, but like you say, the new memories are dominant.
Thanks for the bible verses, I got a lot of comfort and (I'm convinced) help from God and reading the bible from start to finish since this ordeal began. Lisa