I started here under MLC, then I moved to WAS and now I'm here. My H's OW from his EA, possibly PA goes away, then starts calling him again. When she goes away, and they only see each other at work, I can tell because he's wonderful to me. When she gets into a fight with one of the several men she's attached to, I can tell because she starts calling my H again and things go to crap.
I admit to being bad when I find/figure out they are talking again out side of work. It causes me to blow up and back slide. When we have these fights, he says things like "It's over. We aren't getting back together. Sorry I lead you on.....etc". I'm sure you can guess all the other crap he says. He will even say he THINKS he wants to pursue the possible relationship there. That feels like a kick in the teeth.
Here's my question: Is it possible he says this crap to purely piss me off? Or should I acknowledge he could really want to be with her?
