Thanks Burt. That is great wisdom and keep the changes going. I think once you've accepted where you went wrong, the changing part becomes easier

I do think I a suffocating my H who wants to leave. With affection which he never got before. He said he felt deserted b me, i make him want to puke and so many other mean things. I take these things and just listen as I know he hurts. It is painful but I'm a tough old gal (not really). I just cry when the kids are at school, he is at work, and I'm at home.

I don't have time to write much more today. Gotta get to the office.

GDH


Let the sideshow begin....

Me 44
H 46
S 13
D 11
Married: 17
Dated: 7

Bomb 7/1//08 ILUBINILWY
2nd Bomb 4/3/09 I'm Leaving You
3rd Bomb 11/2009 - The 3 YR Affair is discovered