Thanks Burt. That is great wisdom and keep the changes going. I think once you've accepted where you went wrong, the changing part becomes easier
I do think I a suffocating my H who wants to leave. With affection which he never got before. He said he felt deserted b me, i make him want to puke and so many other mean things. I take these things and just listen as I know he hurts. It is painful but I'm a tough old gal (not really). I just cry when the kids are at school, he is at work, and I'm at home.
I don't have time to write much more today. Gotta get to the office.
GDH
Let the sideshow begin....
Me 44 H 46 S 13 D 11 Married: 17 Dated: 7
Bomb 7/1//08 ILUBINILWY 2nd Bomb 4/3/09 I'm Leaving You 3rd Bomb 11/2009 - The 3 YR Affair is discovered