Thanks for the kind words, Rob. I certainly fell like one of the lucky ones. The lucky ones seem to few and far between. I hope I'm not deluding myself. H may be just going with the flow because it's easier than the alternative. He always was easy going. But at least I know I treat him a lot better now.
Your situation will turn out like it's supposed to. Hang in there, if it isn't your wife in the long run, it will someone else more worht your time and effort. Take care, Lisa