A New Decade - Part 2

[MsMelancoly]

Hey Kev, Thanks for the insight. I think you are right about muscians or rocky rolly type bands. Although most of his old band mates have settled down. I think it gave my H the ego boost & escape he needed at the time. I think he sees that band thing, that the good times quickly fade.

Hey Julia, I knew you would understand my "society" issue/topic. Maybe it comes down to the blame game. It's easier for you or friends to say he's a piece of sh*t, you should leave him. Without really taking a look or walking in the others shoes for a bit - before deciding. No one is without some faults. (Well, sometimes difficult to tell that to some "perfect" people in RL).

I'm sure my sister was surprised when I told her last night that H is coming over for dinner on Wed. I'm sure she thought, just D & leave the bum, you're better off without him, why are you still having dinner with him & asking him to fix things, wasting your time on him......and on & on. Now, how could/would my scared H handle all of that from family & friends if we did stay M? Really, facing the rath or embarrassment with family & friends would be a tougher road than getting D & then dating again. See where i'm coming from - as thoughts swim through my head..........