I thought I ready some where that it takes one month of DB for every year that you've been married or something like that. I noticed that it took 19 months for you and you've also been married that long. We've were married six years in August and he'll be gone five months next week.
I'm hoping my story turns out similar to yours, that he'll eventually come around more and get through some of the MLC stuff and see that it can be different. He's told me a couple of times that he didn't get married to get divorced, but then this is a man who changes what he says every five minutes.
I do notice he's not as angry as when he first left, boy he was ugly and mean to me, but has gotten soo much better.
