Well couldn't find my old stuff on the separated board so here goes...I have/had an addiction to painkillers, realized I had the problem and stopped. The issue she had was that she didn't know about the problem until after I quit so she said she couldn't trust me anymore. Did the whole rehab thing and I've been clean for right at two years. For a while after I was clean I had a hard time finding a good job, now I've got a great job.

The only R talk we've had in the last nine months was at Christmas. She said she was still going to D since she still has trust issues, I took that as a good thing, going from never going to trust you again to trust issues.

Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."