I agree kalni. Doing the dishes or doing chores or providing sex is NOT a reason to let someone back in.

COMMITTING TO RENEWAL...I think..in any form..is worth the risk. REBUILDING a foundation...is worth it all. There are never any guarantees but a sincere desire TO TRY...is what counts....not a phone call after two weeks to say hello.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;