Hello Sunshine!

I just read your comment over on Silver Fox's thread and....

OH!.........MY!.........GOD!

You must have the male counterpart of my X.

My X also wanted us to use one lawyer (hers of course as she sought the D and contacted one first). She was very angry and I avoided contact as I dreaded the verbal abuse It didn't go away until the financials were over.

I also let her have it too good in the settlement as I believed it would be very ugly and I was still trying to restore our R despite the presence of OM. They became engaged one month after the financials were completed.

One difference is they are the same age but it will be her 3rd marriage and his 2nd. He has no children.

I have often thought I have screwed myself of late and that it's over but I have heard a little voice say, "It's not over" twice now. I know it sounds crazy but I heard this voice only once before, didn't take its advice and should have.

Last edited by sleeper; 04/21/09 04:42 PM.

"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13