I've got a call in to an attorney I called when my H first left. Waiting for a call back. All my children are grown and out of the house - well D is still in school - but financially I don't have to worry about them.

I do have to worry about me. I don't work. I had a part time job a few years back - lost that for various reasons and when I went looking for a new job got nowhere. Signed on at three agencies, sent in over fifty applications and got nowhere (secretarial). I finally found a job cleaning houses, that totally ruined in my hands (now have carpal tunnel and basal joint arthritis in both hands). Had to give that up then I did grooming for two years - the pay sucked, my hands got much worse and the physical demands of the job were too much. So haven't worked in three years. Oh and I broke my ankle badly 7 years ago so standing for any length of time is out.

He's saying that business is bad yet just last week he ordered a custom made seat for his motorbike for $1,000!!!!!!!


Jerri
Me 50
WAH 47
M 23 years
D 22
S 21
S 30 (previous marriage)
B 02/09 marriage is over
S 02/09 NC