You are too kind, and then you get upset at her for being such a nice guy.
The root of upset is not kindness. I see him trying to take a higher road. But in kindness you cannot expect ANYTHING in return. The expectation is what breeds bitterness, not a kind heart.
So FIB, take a look at why you are folding(or anything else you are doing 'for' her) and if it comes with an expectation of reciprocation, I agree with J3B - don't do it. But if you want to honestly take the high road, that's awesome, just be realistic with what your expectations are for doing the act.
