Hey Jerri, I have read your thread and I would say to protect yourself and your kids legally right now. That is what I'm doing. Try not to worry about what he is doing. My h kept threatening to take the kids (and did take d3) around his 18yo crazy girlfriend, and later delayed/reduced the amount of money he had been giving for the kids, so I had to have my attorney respond to these things. We are currently waiting to come to an agreement with J and his attorney on the things in the temp. orders. I'm hoping it is done early this week. We were supposed to go to hearing this past Monday, but J's attorney delayed since he has pretty much made every bad move in the book and flaunted it to the world. Would have looked very bad to a judge. I know that for myself, personally, I will feel much better when there are orders in place. I can't trust this man any farther than I can throw him. My number one priority is to protect my kids and myself right now. I don't know if you are at that point yet or not, only you can judge. I don't even think my h is still on the mother ship. I think he has even moved beyond it. Out into orbit.
You will be okay no matter what happens. Look out for yourself and your kids. Do not trust him on anything at this point. Do not engage with him, just quietly go about your business. Anyway, that is my 2 cents. Not that I'm an expert by any means...
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