Hi there Lisa, Its a real treat to hear from you again and that for the most part all is still going well.
Quoting tielbeagle: He still doesn't wear his ring. He still doesn't tell me ILY. But he is here, he's happier and he "acts" like he's in love.
I'm starting to see my W take this direction too. Since last June, CAW would wear daily her wedding band and diamond engagement ring on the one hand and a mother's ring and heart shaped ruby ring I gave her last year on the other hand. This summer, she would only wear the rings in public. She would contribute not wearing them to swollen fingers. For the last two weeks, she started wearing the wedding band every day. Again in the last two weeks, there's been a change in her. Happier as you say, and "acting" like in love in ways I haven't seen in long time, but she hasn't given me an ILY in at least six months.
Quoting tielbeagle: I sometimes wonder if I'll ever feel secure again.
Do you think the lack of those three little words is directly related? I know I would feel better about my M, if I started hearing it again.