You sound really good BBJ. I for one didn't see what you were doing as faking it either. You are just moving on with your life, under your control, with only yourself to answer to. That's the way it should be - even inside a M! There are things we should be consulting spouses about and things that should just be our decisions for ourselves. Anyway....I'm glad to see you sounding so healthy in your decision. Quite proud of you girl!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!