When, and how, do you get to where you stop wondering where they are and what they're doing?
LOL if you figure that out let me know. Seriously it's time like the whole process. The weekends that I have the kids are hard even though I almost always know where she is and what she is going.
Quick story...Over a year ago my W and I got into a HUGE fight about spending time together. I had called her one morning when I had the kids to see if she wanted to go bowling with us, well she said she was in the middle of cleaning the closets but thanked me...That night I called her so she could talk with the kids and she was in a car, I was livid, just tore into her about how she couldn't do anything as a family but could go out at night (btw it was with her S to an art gallery). Almost all of our fights were about spending time together. I would get angry we weren't and her reply was why would I want to spend time with someone who fights with me...(Great point, see that now)...I still can get jealous if she goes out with friends but she would NEVER see that now, and on those days sleep doesn't come easy.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
